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Myrtle Beach, SC and surrounding areas of Conway, North Myrtle Beach, Socastee, Aynor, Georgetown and more.
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2016.06.15 13:30 iamjamieq Fans of the Woody and Wilcox morning show

A subreddit for the Woody and Wilcox show, a morning radio show head on several radio stations across the United States. Mostly this is a collection of "Woody Games", but all W&W discussion is welcome.
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2016.09.20 19:03 MiloMinderbnder Asheville City SC

The Official Subreddit of Asheville City Soccer Club
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2023.03.22 05:44 veryshorthealer Trip report: First-time solo travel in south/west of Japan, 4 weeks from mid-Feb to mid-March

Contributing my own experiences as I got a lot of helpful information on this sub!
Went to Osaka - Kyoto - Nara - Fukuoka - Nagasaki - Hiroshima - Matsuyama - Okayama - Himeji - Wakayama.
Will mainly be writing about highlights for each place after some general info:
General:
OSAKA
NARA
KYOTO
FUKUOKA
NAGASAKI
HIROSHIMA
SHIMANAMI KAIDO CYCLING: ONOMICHI to IMABARI 76km
MATSUYAMA
OKAYAMA
HIMEJI
WAKAYAMA - KUMANO KODO PILGRIMAGE HIKE, NAKAHECHI ROUTE
Had the most wonderful time :)) Just missed the cherry blossom season but also means I missed the peak tourist season too so am content. Would love to explore the north and east areas of Japan next time I travel!
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2023.03.22 05:21 tienganh_langmaster BÀI TẬP CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 1, 2, 3, HỖN HỢP, ĐẢO NGỮ (CÓ ĐÁP ÁN)

BÀI TẬP CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 1, 2, 3, HỖN HỢP, ĐẢO NGỮ (CÓ ĐÁP ÁN)
Trong các bài trước Langmaster đã giới thiệu tới các bạn phần kiến thức cơ bản nhất về bộ câu điều kiện trong tiếng Anh. Ngày hôm nay chúng ta sẽ cùng luyện tập chuyên sâu với các bài tập câu điều kiện nhé.

1. Bài tập câu điều kiện loại 0 (Conditionals type 0)

Khái niệm, công thức và cách dùng câu điều kiện loại 0

Trước khi vào phần bài tập, nhắc nhớ 1 chút về khái niệm nhé! Câu điều kiện loại 0 giúp bạn giải thích một sự thật hiển nhiên (quy luật thời tiết, vũ trụ, chân lý,...) hoặc các sự kiện mang tính khoa học hoặc thói quen chắc chắn xảy ra khi điều kiện thiết yếu xảy ra trước đó.
Cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 0:
If + S + V, S + V
= S + V + If + S + V
Ví dụ câu điều kiện loại 0:

  • If you melt an ice cube, it becomes water. (Nếu bạn làm tan chảy 1 cục đá, nó sẽ trở thành nước.)
  • If the sun doesn’t shine, animals, plants and even humans die. (Nếu Mặt trời không còn chiếu sáng nữa, động vật, cây cối và cả con người sẽ chết.)

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Bài tập: Hoàn thành câu với động từ cho trước, sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 0

  1. If someone (ask) _______, tell them that Andy (not/be) _______ here.
  2. Lots of people (come) ____ if Chalice (throw) ____ a party.
  3. The river (freeze) _______ if the temperature (be) ______ below zero.
  4. If I ______ (feel) hard to stay awake, I _____ (drink) coffee before working.
  5. If there (be) _______ no sunlight, humans and other animals (not, exist) _________.
  6. Hoang Anh (buy) ______ expensive clothes if she (go) _______ shopping alone.
  7. Dave (be) ________ allergic if he (eat) ________ peanut.
  8. Marko (pass) ________ his exams if he (study) ________ hard enough.
  9. My boss (cycle) ________ to work if the weather (be) ______ nice.
  10. If you (not/eat)______ for more than 10 hours, you (be)_____ hungry.
Đáp án
  1. asks/is not
  2. come/throws
  3. freezes/is
  4. feel/drink
  5. is/don't exist
  6. buys/goes
  7. is/eats
  8. passes/studies
  9. cycles/is
  10. don't eat/are
Xem thêm bài viết về câu điều kiện:
=> CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 0: ĐỊNH NGHĨA, CẤU TRÚC, CÁCH DÙNG VÀ BÀI TẬP
=> NẮM BẮT NGAY CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN HỖN HỢP: NGỮ PHÁP VÀ BÀI TẬP

2. Bài tập về câu điều kiện loại 1 (Conditionals type 1)

Khái niệm, công thức và cách dùng câu điều kiện loại 1

Câu điều kiện loại 1 được dùng khi sự việc, diễn biến được nhắc đến trong câu của bạn có khả năng xảy ra tại hiện tại hoặc trong tương lai.
Cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 1:
If + S + V(s/es), S + will + V
Ví dụ câu điều kiện loại 1:

  • If you cook dinner, I will wash the dishes. (Nếu bạn nấu cơm tối thì tôi sẽ rửa bát.)
  • If Andy likes you, I’m sure he will ask you out. (Nếu Andy thích bạn thì tôi chắc chắn anh ấy sẽ rủ bạn đi chơi.)

Bài tập 1: Hoàn thành câu với động từ cho trước, sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 1

  1. If Ha _______ (earn) a lot of money, she _______ (travel) to New York.
  2. If my friends _______ (come) here, we _______ (be) very happy.
  3. If they _______ (travel) to London, we _______ (visit) Big Ben clock tower.
  4. If you _______ (wear) sandals on the mountains, you _______ (trip) on the rocks.
  5. If Ian _______ (study), he _______ (pass) the exams.
  6. If you _______ (go) to the club, you _______ (listen) to loud music.
  7. If the sun _______ (shine), we _______ (walk) in the park.
  8. If Ryan _______ (forget) his homeworks, teacher _______ (give) him bad marks.
  9. If the baby _______ (have) a temperature, the parent should _______ (take) them to the doctor.
  10. If you _______ (wait) a minute, I _______ (call) my sisters.

Bài tập 2: Viết câu sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 1

  1. If/I/go/out/tonight/I/go/night club.
  2. If/you/get/back/late/Marko/be/angry.
  3. If/we/not/see/them/tomorrow/we/see/them/next/Friday.
  4. If/Harpecome/I/be/surprised.
  5. If/we/wait/here/we/be/late/sure.
  6. If/we/go/on/vacation/this/summewe/go/Sweden.
  7. If/weathenot/improve/we/not/have/rowing session.
  8. If/I/not/go/get/rest/early/I/be/tired/tomorrow.
  9. If/we/eat/all/this/chicken/we/feel/uncomfortable.
  10. I/come/earlieif/you/want.

Đáp án

Bài tập 1
  1. earns/will travel
  2. come/will be
  3. travel/will visit
  4. weawill trip
  5. studies/will pass
  6. go/will listen
  7. shines/will walk
  8. forgets/will give
  9. has/take
  10. wait/will call
Bài tập 2.
  1. If I go out tonight, I will go to the nightclub.
  2. If you get back late, Marko will be angry.
  3. If we don't see them tomorrow, we will see them next Friday.
  4. If Harper comes I will be surprised.
  5. If we wait here, we will be late for sure.
  6. If we go on a vacation this summer, we will go to Sweden.
  7. If the weather doesn't improve, we will not have a rowing session.
  8. If I don't go get some rest early, I will be tired tomorrow.
  9. If we eat all this chicken, we will feel uncomfortable.
  10. I will come earlier If you want.
Xem thêm bài viết về câu điều kiện:
=> ĐẢO NGỮ CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN: ĐỊNH NGHĨA, CÔNG THỨC, CÁCH DÙNG, BÀI TẬP
=> CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 3: ĐỊNH NGHĨA, CẤU TRÚC, CÁCH DÙNG VÀ BÀI TẬP

3. Bài tập câu điều kiện loại 2 (Conditionals type 2)

Khái niệm, công thức và cách dùng câu điều kiện loại 2

Câu điều kiện loại 2 được dùng khi sự việc, diễn biến được nhắc đến trong câu của bạn không hề có khả năng xảy ra ở thời điểm hiện tại.
Cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 2:
If + S + V(ed), S + would + V
Ví dụ câu điều kiện loại 2:

  • If I had his numbers, I would call him now. (Nếu tôi có số điện thoại của anh ấy thì tôi đã gọi cho anh ấy rồi.)
  • If today were April Fool’s day, we would tell lies. (Nếu hôm nay mà là ngày Cá tháng Tư thì chúng tôi đã nói dối nhau rồi.)

Bài tập 1: Hoàn thành câu với động từ cho trước, sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 2

  1. If Cliver ______ (find) money, he ______ (not/keep) it.
  2. If you ______ (not/wear) jacket in the mountains, it ______ (be) very cold during the night.
  3. If Tuan ______ (know) Ha phone number, he ______ (give) it to Frank.
  4. If the kids ______ (not/visit) this museum, they ______ (not/write) a good report.
  5. If it ______ (not/be) so late, we ______ (play) another round.
  6. If Jefrey ______ (not/like) Jessica, he ______ (not/buy) her so many presents.
  7. If I ______ (be) you, I ______ (not/go) to Evan's party.
  8. Even if you ______ (drop) this bottle, it ______ (not/break).
  9. If Linh ______ (not/bully) her classmates, she ______ (have) more friends.
  10. If the students ______ (not/print) the document, I ______ (not/accept) it.

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Bài tập 2: Bài tập viết lại câu điều kiện loại 2

  1. My boss doesn’t let me have some days off, I still have to work.
  2. I’m not going to buy an iPhone 14 because it’s too expensive.
  3. The weather is getting colder, I can’t get up in time.
  4. They don’t tell their mother the truth because she will be sad.
  5. I don’t know his address so I can’t send him the wedding invitation.
  6. I can’t go to the movies tonight because I have deadlines to meet.
  7. Mark is ill, he can’t go skiing with Steve.

Đáp án

Bài tập 1.
  1. found/ would not keep
  2. didn't weawould be
  3. knew/would give
  4. didn't visit/couldn't write
  5. weren't be/would play
  6. didn't like/wouldn't buy
  7. were/wouldn't go
  8. dropped/wouldn't break
  9. didn't bully/would have
  10. didn't print/wouldn't accept
Bài tập 2.
  1. If my boss let me have some days off, I wouldn't have to work.
  2. If the iPhone 14 weren't too expensive, I would buy it.
  3. If the weather weren't getting colder, I could get up in time.
  4. If I knew his address, I could send him the wedding invitation.
  5. If I didn't have deadlines to meet, I would/could go to the movies tonight.
  6. If they told their mother the truth, she would be sad.
  7. If Mark weren't ill, he could go skiing with Steve
Xem thêm bài viết về câu điều kiện:
=> CHỈ 10 PHÚT NẮM VỮNG CẤU TRÚC CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 2 VÀ BIẾN THỂ
=> CẤU TRÚC CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 1, 2, CÁCH DÙNG VÀ VÍ DỤ CỤ THỂ NHẤT

4. Bài tập câu điều kiện loại 3 (Conditionals type 3)

Khái niệm, công thức và cách dùng câu điều kiện loại 3

Câu điều kiện loại 3 được dùng khi sự việc, diễn biến được nhắc đến trong câu của bạn không hề có khả năng xảy ra ở thời điểm quá khứ.
Cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 3:
If + S + had P2, S + would + have + P2
Ví dụ câu điều kiện loại 3:

  • If I had had the chance, I would have quit this job (Nếu tôi có cơ hội thì tôi đã nghỉ việc rồi.)
  • If Andy had known about the story, he would have told us. (Nếu Andy mà biết chuyện thì anh ấy đã kể cho chúng tôi nghe rồi.)

Bài tập 1: Hoàn thành câu với động từ cho trước, sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 3

  1. Pepper (send) _______ Happy her wedding invitation if she (have) _______ his address.
  2. If I (know) _______ my boss was in the hospital, I (visit) _______ him.
  3. Sarah (not/run) _______ out suddenly if her mother (not/scold) ______ her.
  4. If Jack (not/break) _______ the vase, he (take) _______ it to the kitchen.
  5. If it (not/stop) _______ raining, the kids (play) _______ inside.
  6. We (swim) _______ in the lake if there (not/be) _______ so many people there.
  7. My brother (go) _______ the gym yesterday if he (not/be) _______ so exhausted.
  8. If I (see) _______ you in the mall yesterday, I (go) _______ with you.
  9. If Duy (not/use) ________ the phone, he (not/hit) _______ the door.
  10. If Sandy (take) _______ the bus, she (not/arrive) _______ at the event on time.
ĐĂNG KÝ NGAY:


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Bài tập 2: Bài tập trắc nghiệm câu điều kiện - Chọn đáp án đúng để hoàn thành câu

1. If the lady _________ the boy, he _________ into the car.
A. wouldn’t see/had jumped B. didn’t see/would jump
C. hadn’t seen/would have jumped D. didn’t see/jumped
2. If we ________ not had instructions we ________ got lost .
A. have/get B. had/get
C. had/would have got D. would had/got
3. If you _________ the dog he _________ you.
A. don’t teased/didn’t bark B. had not teased/wouldn’t have barked
C. tease/doesn’t barked D. hadn’t teased/hadn’t barked
4. If you ________ had a daughter, _______ called her Amy?
A. have/call B. had/would you have
C. would have/would you D. had/would you
5. I _________ really happy If my mother _________ beefsteak.
A. would be/had made B. am/made
C. was/makes D. had been/would have made
6. You ________ the film if you ________ it.
A. like/watch B. would you have/had
C. liked/would watch D. would have like/had watch
7. If we _________ in Florida we _________ to the beach .
A. were/would go B. were/went
C. be/could have gone D. had been/would have gone
8. If I ________ English I _________ to London.
A. had known/could have gone B. had knew/went
C. knew/would go D. would know/go
9. If I _________ my glasses I _________ you better.
A. wore/would see/ B. wore/saw
C. had worn/could have seen D. had worn/see
10. The cake _________ better If you _________ added more brown sugar.
A. had tasted/added B. would have tasted/had added
C. taste/add D. would tasted/had added

Đáp án

Bài tập 1.
  1. could have sent/had had
  2. had known/would have visited
  3. would not have run/had not scolded
  4. hadn't broken/had taken
  5. hadn't stopped/would have played
  6. would have swim/hadn't been
  7. would have gone/hadn't been
  8. had seen/would have gone
  9. hadn't used/wouldn't have hit
  10. had taken/wouldn't arrived
Bài tập 2.
  1. C
  2. C
  3. B
  4. B
  5. D
  6. D
  7. D
  8. A
  9. C
  10. B

5. Bài tập câu điều kiện hỗn hợp (Mixed Conditional)

XEM THÊM: NẮM BẮT NGAY NGỮ PHÁP CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN HỖN HỢP
  1. If you listened carefully, you __________ (know) about the topic.
  2. They will stay longer in Paris if they _________ (find) a cheaper hotel.
  3. Henry can write good stories if he _________ (feel) like it.
  4. If Ailine __________ (have) more money, she would travel to Africa.
  5. If you were older, you _________ (go) to the pool party.
  6. If Sandy _________ (not/eat) so much junk food, she could have been in better shape.
  7. If Hector had taken his camera, he _________ (take) nice pictures.
  8. If Brian ________ (like) speed, we could ride more often.
  9. John's mother __________ (have) more time for him if he does the washing up himself.
  10. If the weather had been better, we __________ (go) by bike.
Đáp án
  1. would know
  2. can find
  3. feels
  4. had
  5. could go
  6. hadn't eaten
  7. would have taken
  8. liked
  9. will have
  10. could have gone

6. Bài tập về đảo ngữ câu điều kiện

XEM THÊM: ĐẢO NGỮ CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LÀ GÌ?
  1. If my dad calls, tell me right away.
  2. If Sandy had slept last night, she would be sober now.
  3. If I had known the correct answers, I would have told the teacher.
  4. If I were you, I would have borrowed Micheal some money.
  5. If I were a billionaire, I would not have to work this hard.
  6. Our salary would be higher if I had signed the contract successfully.
  7. If they run out of limes, we will have to buy them from somewhere else.
  8. If she hadn’t gone out, she wouldn’t have spent a lot of money.
  9. If our house were bigger, we could sell it faster.
  10. If you change your mind, I want to know about it.

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Đáp án
  1. Should my dad call, tell me right away.
  2. Had Sandy slept enough 8 hours last night, she would be sober now.
  3. Had I known the correct answers, I would have told the teacher.
  4. Were I you, I would have borrowed Micheal some money.
  5. Were I a billionaire, I would not have to work this hard.
  6. Had I signed the contract successfully our salary would be higher.
  7. Should they run out of limes, we will have to buy them from somewhere else.
  8. Had she not gone out, she wouldn’t have spent a lot of money.
  9. Were our house bigger, we could sell it faster.
  10. Should you change your mind, I want to know about it.

7. Bài tập câu điều kiện nâng cao

Xem thêm bài viết về câu điều kiện:
=> CHỈ 5 PHÚT DÙNG ĐƯỢC HẾT MỌI CẤU TRÚC IF, CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN TIẾNG ANH
=> CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN TRONG TIẾNG ANH: CÔNG THỨC, CÁCH SỬ DỤNG VÀ BÀI TẬP
1. __________, I'd have come immediately.
A. Were I to know
B. Had I known
2. If Ian __________ you, he would never have done that.
A. had been
B. were
3. Provided you _________ there 30 mins before it starts, you'll get straight in.
A. will be
B. are
4. __________ my parent's help, I'd have been in real trouble.
A. But for
B. If only
5. __________ , you'll miss your flight for sure.
A. If you hurry
B. Unless you hurry
6. __________ there, will you ask him to meet me?
A. If Henry will be
B. Should Henry be
7. You ________ so sleepy if you'd gone to bed earlier.
A. are
B. wouldn't be
8. If we _________ the bet last night, we'd be rich now.
A. won
B. had won
9. If I _____ the red medicine, I would still be in pain.
A. wouldn't take
B. hadn't taken
10. If you ________ him, you would be miserable now.
A. had accepted
B. would accepted
Đáp án
  1. A
  2. B
  3. B
  4. A
  5. B
  6. B
  7. B
  8. A
  9. B
  10. A
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2023.03.22 04:59 softerthansoftware 32/ Canada 4 NA - let's make an online friends group?

I'll prob delete this thread from my profile but here goes nothing.
32 year old human looking for friends online for casual chatting, small talk, pic sharing and even organizing a biweekly game or something.
About me: - proud new dog mom of a small sausage boy. He is taking a lot of my time right now. - in a transitional phase currently in life hence would appreciate online support - english is my 3rd language. You can try to guess the first 2 - brand new grad developer - dabble in psychonaut stuff therapeutically, altered states of minds (not to give off a bad impression)
If you kept reading this far, id like to make a discord server of like minded chill people with similar interest and on their right path in life (determined to reach their own goals). Even tho i am not a gamer, i would love to organize a bi weekly group game for fun witb people. Maybe we can try an online board game too.
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2023.03.22 04:45 MBMovers Maxine Court is a Myrtle Beach SC street name.

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2023.03.22 03:34 SomeBiologyMajor AITA for causing my dad to skip work and possibly loose his job.

Long backstory: I'm [F]15 and I live in an apartment with my mom[42] and recently my dad[39]. My parents split[after moving to st.paul] when I was young and because of my mom and her issues I didn't have a relationship with my father other than spending the night with him, my uncle and his wife and my cousin every few months. Otherwise he was a ghost. When we moved back to my hometown where my family lives when I was 6 or so, my dad and I started to reconnect as much as we could. He was always nonchalant and quiet but very hardworking and usually reliable. I lived with him for a few years when I was 10 to 12 while my mom was really deep in her addiction until she got clean, and things happened and I had to stay with her. During those 2 years dad had a crazy native girlfriend [30 something] and later a crazy stupid girlfriend at the time who was 22. She was completely insufficient in any useful life skills and had previously been in 2 relationships (In the first one she was abusive as she told me and in the second one she was abused). When my father got with her she was about to lose her town boys from her second relationship for doing weed and coke during her pregnancy and since her ex had a felony and domestic charges they were going to be put into foster care. In the end she lost them both because she failed to make a genuine effort to either get clean or keep them, god forbid both at the same time. And convinced dad to get a dog I explicitly told him I did not want and was not going to help take care of. While after all that,,, dad with the scarps scraped together a semi successful restaurant.
Fast forward 7 months she's crashed all 3 of my dad's cars thanks to the weather up here near the border, and got dad sent to prison[She left an unlicensed played white car full of drugs in front of his business and he took the fall because the police said it was in his. Something I was not made aware of until 2 months after my father had disappeared from prison which I did not know about either. But I'll get to that] for what was supposed to be 4 years for an almost federal level drug charge after getting pregnant with him. I was while he was in the process of being detained, told J was going to have a sleepover at my mom's with no further details. And was later told everything[she knew] a week before his trial by my mom. During this time my dad's girlfriend decided to go on a week long trip to Las Vegas and leave the dog she insisted on getting alone in his kennel and texted me to 'take him out', mind you I did not live in the same building as her. I ended up just taking him with me much to my father's dismay because she harassed him non stop about not having the dog anymore. She later brought to Cane corso puppies while dad was in prison with his money, and got kicked out because they didn't have papers for them and it was originally a no pets building. Thankfully for her though she got into the Jeremiah program and had a place to live after, and dad did not get his security deposit back because she let his new puppies pee and poop everywhere, especially my old room which still has most of my stuff because I only packed to have a sleepover at my mom's months prior.
After all that, my dad got out 3 years early on good behavior because they were getting full of actually bad criminals and couldn't hold everyone, and let the small fries free.
So his child with her was born right after he got out, and she got her rights terminated because she was on drugs this entire pregnancy too, and dad has fought tooth and nail to get the rights to have her the past three months she's been alive. My mom thankfully let them both stay here while everything was sorted out legally,, plus it was the only place dad could get her approved to stay at. And she even let his somehow still girlfriend stay there for a bit too even though that is completely illegal because she is supposed to have no contact. After she did drugs in mom's sober apartment and I told mom how much I hate her she refused to let her over anymore, and I have also been taking care of the baby until my mom gets off work after I get home from school everyday while trying to keep my grades up and continue participating in my activities.
Another detail I remembered, One day before dad went to prison she and I got into a fight after most of the bad stuff before he went to prison, and he decided to talk to me instead of her because I was her by talking about the boys she lost to the system. After he hit me multiple times AND I hit her back once, he was present in the room and watched the entire thing. I mean I get I'm not the feminine daughter you wanted but seriously dad?
Anyways I'm working on my grades taking care of my dad's kid for a few hours every day.
On to the AITH part:
Today my mom had a dentist appointment, and my dad had to leave for work at the usual time when I got home from school. I actually skipped school for an unrelated reason but when I got home had to take care of a baby, dad told be mom had an appointment and she wouldn't be back at all today[recently mom's been hanging out with this guy she likes everyday and hour before dad gets home leaving me with the baby an hour after I would prefer to go to sleep for school and an hour longer than before.] That after her appointment she's going to a NA meeting and then going to her friends, and that mom said it was okay for my dad's ex to come over and help me watch the baby while dad was at work.
Now I have often handed her off as soon as I could, and I Am Not The BEST at taking care of her. But mom and dad know how much I hate that woman who is somehow almost ten years older than me with the maturity of a 7th grader.
So I told my father no. Dad said mom said it was okay, and I calmly said I don't care I will not let her in. I can take care of her by myself. Dad proceeded to say "Then I'll stay to let her in." So he went outside.
I assumed he went to work cause he would be late if he didn't leave then and there but just in case I did the chain lock. And who would've guessed 20 minutes later he comes back, unlocks the door and trusts to open it with his girlfriend standing beside him. He knocks when I don't open it and asks me to let them in and she is going to help me while dad is gone. I hesitantly set the baby down in her bassinet and went and unlocked the door and told dad, she is not coming inside here.
Me and dad are for a few minutes, and dad says he won't let me have her here alone" like that's been an issue until now. and I brag that "she hasn't cried since you left 20 something minutes ago and was fine till you made me set her down." He responds "you know earlier this week cos came by because the neighbors complained she was crying all night." I did not know that, and she was a fussy baby either way even when all her needs were met she would cry just cause she could. Especially so when she was with me. But all last week she was terrible for everyone including him and mom. And the fact he had the audacity to say that to me. I rudely told him no, and he said "If you won't let her in then I'll just stay home." Which is a big deal for him because he had to cut his hours when he got temporary custody of her and has been late a lot. But I was angry and would rather drop out of highschool and work to pay dads rent then be in a room with her so I said "do it." All the while her girlfriend stood there dumbfounded saying "I thought I was going to see my baby." Even though she has historically done a worse job than me, and it is straight up completely lose all custody illegal to have her with the baby outside of scheduled visits once of which she had this morning while my as home.
He did it, and right after he said "If you're going to act like an adult I'm going to treat you like an adult." Told me to get out of his face, aka 4 feet away from him in the shared living room and indirectly threatened to hit me if I didn't leave because I'm an “adult” now.
Dad has chosen to ignore my existence, and indirectly disowned me, and refused to let me help him even though his hands are full.
I've been talking to my mom as much as I could be she has only responded to a handful of my messages
It's 6 hours later close too when dad would get off work. And he called his girlfriend to get him food even though I had a pizza[I had to beg my mom to order me because dad was ignoring me and I doubt he would've got me food]and asked if he wanted any to which he ignored me again.
I'm sitting in my room and I've been crying on and off and I really don't know what to do.shoudk I apologize? Would he even listen?
Am I really the AH for making my dad not go to work cause he didn't trust me enough to leave me with his kid.
Sorry for grammatical weeks or confusion. I wrote this entire thing in a Fit of rage and depression because I'm starting to feel like I'm the one in the wrong.
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2023.03.22 01:47 YouHadMeAtAloe Best Friends Animal Society ad in Bon Appétit magazine’s April edition. “Save a face”, tell that to Justin, Brooklinn, Lily, and all the rest that have been savagely attacked

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2023.03.22 01:43 MarxistSwifty Holy crap, I’m gonna be 30.

TW: suicidal intent; ED
I’ll be honest, I don’t even remember when 19 turned into 20.
I was a fresh college dropout, moved back in with my abusive mom, and rode a kid’s bike to a gig waiting tables at a run-down local pizza joint. The only romantic attention I got was the creepy owner hitting on me, and I spent most of my free time in internet writing forums with the only “friends” I knew.
At one point, I filled my pockets with rocks and walked into the ocean a few hundred feet from the one bedroom apartment I shared with my mom and sister. I couldn’t make myself walk past my hips into the cold water, and I ran home sobbing and soaking wet. Things were really not good.
I would look at other “real” adults and wonder how on god’s green earth they pulled that off? Was it possible to actually have your shit together?
I turn 30 in about a month, and I would do anything to shake that kid by the shoulders and promise them everything is going to be okay. That they’re not a total fuck up, and everyone else is just pretending at 20.
At 29, I have a career, not just a job, with a company I’m helping build from the ground up. I feel immense accomplishment for my role and working my way into the six-figure range of the white collar world. I have a 401(k) and keep tabs on the stock market; I used to think that was “rich people crap.” Some in my industry even consider me something of an expert, and my career is just starting.
I wake up at 7:30 like clockwork, unbelievable. I take vitamins and probiotics and I choke down these objectively gross smoothies that have tons of nutrients. I brush my teeth every single day, and even floss most mornings! I actually love myself enough to bathe regularly and smile and comb my hair instead of just throwing on a huge hoodie and calling it a day. People are warmer to me; I laugh more.
I have a whole wife somehow! I thought I was an untouchable toad at 20, and now the most beautiful woman in the world wakes up next to me every morning. We’re living in a house we love and we’re saving to buy own own; we have two amazing dogs and we live in our favorite city. We go on vacations at least yearly, more if we can, and I see my family a few times a year without getting into any screaming matches.
I go hiking and kayaking all the time; I didn’t even know I liked those things at 20. I’m taking a bouldering class next week, and I ride my bike almost everyday. I go to the gym most days and I enjoy it. I ran a 10k this last winter simply for fun. I’m a vegetarian now, and in the best shape of my life - me at 20 had an unchecked eating disorder and lives on ramen.
I have spreadsheets for my bills. I clean my house on a regular basis; my closet is almost immaculate. I strategize which CC to use to gain airline points, and I own more than one formal suit. I wear supportive shoes and don’t drink too much (usually) and have real, actual, meaningful friendships.
My life is absolutely bursting with love; both for and from me.
I wish I could sit on the beach and console that little 20 year old kid; I am so happy now, and I’m so glad I’m here. I’m so GLAD about all of my mistakes. I’m so glad that life keeps going.
I can’t tell this to my past self, so I hope someone hears me: You are going to figure this out. You are growing and learning; there are so many tomorrows ahead. You will get there.
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2023.03.22 01:03 the_aviatrixx Any dog-friendly restaurants in town?

My dad just passed away unexpectedly in the STL area (IL side) and we’ll be heading back from Cedar Rapids quite a bit in the coming months. Quincy is where we always stop so our 11-month-old can have a break from being in the car but the dog goes with us so I’d prefer not to just leave him in the car with warmer temps coming. I’m a little familiar with Quincy because my grandma is from there and we visited a lot as kids, I’ve always liked the Pier (RIP), Tiramisu, and Greek to Me but looking for somewhere more casual like a sports bar or something even though we won’t be drinking in the middle of an almost 5 hour drive. Thinking of the minutiae like this is helping to distract me from how sad I am, so thanks for helping.
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2023.03.21 23:01 Fluffy-Indication241 AITA for publicly doubting my friend's alien story and calling him an idiot?

I admit, I don't like this guy.
He's more my roommate than my friend but we do sometimes do stuff together, like go out to the bars or when it's warm, kayaking or the beach.
But he's a terrible roommate and crap pet owner. Has the sweetest dog he lets take massive shits on our carpet b/c he won't take her out enough & then has to be cajoled to clean them up AND REMINDED to use soap and water, not just paper towels.
He doesn't walk her very often & will sometimes leave her tied up at the "dog friendly" bars we frequent, dipping out to go hunt down or do drugs, forcing other people to care for her.
He's always late on the rent and prefers to do "side gigs" he picks up on Apps or on Craigslist to working a legit, steady job (says he's "too good" to work at a grocery store or McDonald's) so he's always just barely scraping by and you have to practically threaten him with eviction to get his share of the bills out of him.
His favorite thing to do is park it all day long on the couch, smoke enormous amounts of weed, watch YouTube videos on his phone, or sneak into my room to watch that Alien Discovery show on my cable.
I told him to stay outta my room the third or fourth time I caught him doing it & he responded since I "don't believe in aliens I must not believe in God."
I don't even know WTF that means.
We were out at a bar watching the game & after it was over he launches into this long, detailed story about how he had an "intense alien experience" on the side of a mountain when he was out in California and it was a "close encounter" b/c he believes the aliens were making contact with him through special communication lights or sound.
His poor dog was whining to be taken for a walk the whole time he rambled on and on & I couldn't take it anymore & was determined not to take her out for him this time so I said "Lemme guess, you were REALLY HIGH when this happened."
He said "yes" but that "wasn't important" & didn't mean what he experienced wasn't real & I said "Well, honestly, when aren't you really high?" and made remarks that if all he does is get blasted all day long and watch YouTube lizard people videos and Alien documentaries on TV of course he's gonna think he's had "encounters." And that if he doesn't realize this, he's an idiot.
People laughed and he got SO MAD at me.
Really steamed about it when we got home and still keeps talking about how much I embarrassed him and he "thought we were friends, man."
AITA for publicly casting doubt on his cool alien story and calling him an idiot to boot?
I feel bad about the idiot part. I mean, I was mad about the dog and our living situation but I'm usually above name calling.
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2023.03.21 22:01 unsurewhattodothrow My (26F) Fiance(27M) and I are expecting with a 12 week pregnancy, buying a house, and 2 months ago a week after we found out I'm pregnant, he partied on his business trip with random women and took them out to dinner, hasn't told me. What do I do?

TLDR: fiance hungout with random women and partied on his work trip struggling with his mental and physical health for many months, never told me about one woman he's now connected to and inappropriately flirts with her through text and probably in person one on one. What do I do? I'm pregnant with our first and we're buying a house.
I'm (26F) 12 weeks pregnant, closing on buying a house with my (27M) fiance, started a new job for better pay for us 3 weeks ago, and my fiance went on a business trip but wasted most of his time going to casino and clubs partying, with a random woman we "knew of from Facebook and through mutuals, but never officially met (until he did while there).
This is our first baby to be together. After 4 and a half years together, we're finalizing home ownership at the end of the month. I felt this was all about us growing together now but the way hes acting lately it's like he wants a snippet of the single life with partying with random people, beautiful women, including one on one time with said other women for dinners and more casino time. His partying behavious has increased for the last several months. He owns his own business, and it's expanded so much while we've been together into making a few million a year, a bigger team, and expanding to another town whoch adds to his pressure and work stress. He has random people from our town and neighboring towns that we "know of" (small territory) on social media for advertising reach, but this one woman he ended up deleting since she annoyingly posted a lot, I'll call her Valene. He went to the city for 3 weeks to pick up products and get one of our dogs neutered, so because of the surgery, he stayed 5 days longer.
He went to the casino/clubs around 5-10 times at least, on weekends and week days, including when the trip was extended for our dog's neutering. During this he caught up with an old friend(23F) I'll call her Lisa that we both know from highschool also an ex of his, no feelings leftover, just platonic but very beautiful woman and into fitness. His time with her, he was letting me know ahead of time when they were going to hang out and got food, most times with another guy friend of his as well. Including over a weekend air bnb rental in the next city but she ended up going home when they got into a dumb drunken fight (from the sounds of it) while also all binge drinking and doing drugs together all night before that weekend.
He saw the younger woman Valene (23F) that he had on facebook but deleted because she posted so much, at a party casino his first night and they recognized eachother, he told me that she was looking and walking with a drink staring at him and accidentally walked into some other person. They didn't have eachother online for a month or 2, but then recently I saw her reacting and commenting on his posts like they know eachother, after he told me he already deleted her the first night he mentioned to me he saw her. Now they're connected online again a couple weeks after his trip. I found that odd, and he never mentioned anything to me about her. He told me he was struggling in pain physically and mentally more so during his trip which is why he was partying. His flight was delayed for 2 days since the airline didn't accept the original kennel our dog was shipped with (too small, they never said anything from here) so he had to buy a new one.
I know it isn't right to snoop in your partners phone, but I wanted to know why they were connected and he didn't mention anything to me, I figured that they ran into eachother one night out again and that was it but they did more like exchanging numbers, texted the next day, went for food and to the casino until 2am again, she texts him like they're long time friends but with some flirting, that I'll get into more detail about.
He told her his flight was moved for an extra couple days, said let's do something, that he'll take her out to eat and tried getting her when he was at a restaurant already, she said "atleast give me 4 hours i look like shit". She has an almost 1 year old from a cheating ex that she left last year so she needed to arrange a babysitter ahead of time as well, and asked if he could pay, he responded "never even fucked yet and I'm already paying your babysitter hahahaha. That was a joke though <3" which i feel has crossed a line. She said "your dime my time" "hahaha I can say the same thing" "Okay until midnight?" he said,"2am lets go casino again" "I got one for all night" "trying to sleepover? Hahaha. " "No, I don't want to wake my baby up in the middle of the night you wish." "hahaha actually, I dont, but it was a joke." Then they ended up hanging out, and he picked her up, and I can tell that he dropped her off around 2am by their following texts.
A couple weeks later she was messaging him every day to every few days until just over a week ago, she was saying things like "sup fuck" "hey how's it going you make it back up" "Good morning" "hey" "have you seen my dad up there? He doesn't talk to me anymore. Reinstated daddy issues lol" "What do you mean? " "nvm" she also asked if he has snap, he said he does, but he doesn't use it. She said "well?" "And I'm not going to use it."
She seems to initiate all their convos, they kinda catch up, but since they don't hang out now, it's minimal. But she also messaged. " I have a question for you. You told me you're allowed to have female friends, but you told me you didn't tell your wife about meeting me. Why?" He said "yea so, idk lol" "okay" "you can tell her idc" "that would be the dumbest thing as a woman" and he went off on his rant saying "I meet so many people everywhere I go I don't discuss everything, I hungout with a ton of people when I was there male female it's normal life. Plus, most times, we hung out to party or go eat idk it's no big deal. I did get confused having to pay for your babysitter, haha, but you're a student all good. How come u ask haha" she said "idk" then changed the topic.
There's been more frequency of him having no patience for me, and he gets very upset and angry when i try to talk and communicate my needs in our relationship, but I'm hurt that he can pretend to be all nice with these other random women,, pay for their babysitter, take them for food, party with them in a whole different city. I wanna let him know if his flirting is too much for me (I let him flirt with other women many times while we we're out together but I was there and went home with him). He always defends that attraction to other people is natural, flirting is sometimes good for his business or getting deals etc. If this woman wasn't attractive, he wouldn't even have hung out with her and now be "friends". It's not like they're long time friends she's a random new woman from the bar from a month ago.
How do I bring it up, if at all, with his anger problems? Any advice is welcome. I'm anxious about dealing with this only now that I'm pregnant with him, so confused with my feelings and what to do. Would personal or couples therapy help us through this? I thought of saying, "I noticed her commenting. Did you end up meeting with her?" Or something along the lines to not push him into anger. Or should this be a conversation at all initiated by me?
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2023.03.21 22:00 unsurewhattodothrow My (26F) Fiance (27M) and I are 12weeks pregnant, buying a house, but I found out he partied with a random woman he met on his business trip and hasn't mentioned their new friendship to me at all. What do I do?

TLDR: fiance hungout with random women and partied on his work trip struggling with his mental and physical health for many months, never told me about one woman he's now connected to and inappropriately flirts with her through text and probably in person one on one. What do I do? I'm pregnant with our first and we're buying a house.
I'm (26F) 12 weeks pregnant, closing on buying a house with my (27M) fiance, started a new job for better pay for us 3 weeks ago, and my fiance went on a business trip but wasted most of his time going to casino and clubs partying, with a random woman we "knew of from Facebook and through mutuals, but never officially met (until he did while there).
This is our first baby to be together. After 4 and a half years together, we're finalizing home ownership at the end of the month. I felt this was all about us growing together now but the way hes acting lately it's like he wants a snippet of the single life with partying with random people, beautiful women, including one on one time with said other women for dinners and more casino time. His partying behavious has increased for the last several months. He owns his own business, and it's expanded so much while we've been together into making a few million a year, a bigger team, and expanding to another town whoch adds to his pressure and work stress. He has random people from our town and neighboring towns that we "know of" (small territory) on social media for advertising reach, but this one woman he ended up deleting since she annoyingly posted a lot, I'll call her Valene. He went to the city for 3 weeks to pick up products and get one of our dogs neutered, so because of the surgery, he stayed 5 days longer.
He went to the casino/clubs around 5-10 times at least, on weekends and week days, including when the trip was extended for our dog's neutering. During this he caught up with an old friend(23F) I'll call her Lisa that we both know from highschool also an ex of his, no feelings leftover, just platonic but very beautiful woman and into fitness. His time with her, he was letting me know ahead of time when they were going to hang out and got food, most times with another guy friend of his as well. Including over a weekend air bnb rental in the next city but she ended up going home when they got into a dumb drunken fight (from the sounds of it) while also all binge drinking and doing drugs together all night before that weekend.
He saw the younger woman Valene (23F) that he had on facebook but deleted because she posted so much, at a party casino his first night and they recognized eachother, he told me that she was looking and walking with a drink staring at him and accidentally walked into some other person. They didn't have eachother online for a month or 2, but then recently I saw her reacting and commenting on his posts like they know eachother, after he told me he already deleted her the first night he mentioned to me he saw her. Now they're connected online again a couple weeks after his trip. I found that odd, and he never mentioned anything to me about her. He told me he was struggling in pain physically and mentally more so during his trip which is why he was partying. His flight was delayed for 2 days since the airline didn't accept the original kennel our dog was shipped with (too small, they never said anything from here) so he had to buy a new one.
I know it isn't right to snoop in your partners phone, but I wanted to know why they were connected and he didn't mention anything to me, I figured that they ran into eachother one night out again and that was it but they did more like exchanging numbers, texted the next day, went for food and to the casino until 2am again, she texts him like they're long time friends but with some flirting, that I'll get into more detail about.
He told her his flight was moved for an extra couple days, said let's do something, that he'll take her out to eat and tried getting her when he was at a restaurant already, she said "atleast give me 4 hours i look like shit". She has an almost 1 year old from a cheating ex that she left last year so she needed to arrange a babysitter ahead of time as well, and asked if he could pay, he responded "never even fucked yet and I'm already paying your babysitter hahahaha. That was a joke though <3" which i feel has crossed a line. She said "your dime my time" "hahaha I can say the same thing" "Okay until midnight?" he said,"2am lets go casino again" "I got one for all night" "trying to sleepover? Hahaha. " "No, I don't want to wake my baby up in the middle of the night you wish." "hahaha actually, I dont, but it was a joke." Then they ended up hanging out, and he picked her up, and I can tell that he dropped her off around 2am by their following texts.
A couple weeks later she was messaging him every day to every few days until just over a week ago, she was saying things like "sup fuck" "hey how's it going you make it back up" "Good morning" "hey" "have you seen my dad up there? He doesn't talk to me anymore. Reinstated daddy issues lol" "What do you mean? " "nvm" she also asked if he has snap, he said he does, but he doesn't use it. She said "well?" "And I'm not going to use it."
She seems to initiate all their convos, they kinda catch up, but since they don't hang out now, it's minimal. But she also messaged. " I have a question for you. You told me you're allowed to have female friends, but you told me you didn't tell your wife about meeting me. Why?" He said "yea so, idk lol" "okay" "you can tell her idc" "that would be the dumbest thing as a woman" and he went off on his rant saying "I meet so many people everywhere I go I don't discuss everything, I hungout with a ton of people when I was there male female it's normal life. Plus, most times, we hung out to party or go eat idk it's no big deal. I did get confused having to pay for your babysitter, haha, but you're a student all good. How come u ask haha" she said "idk" then changed the topic.
There's been more frequency of him having no patience for me, and he gets very upset and angry when i try to talk and communicate my needs in our relationship, but I'm hurt that he can pretend to be all nice with these other random women,, pay for their babysitter, take them for food, party with them in a whole different city. I wanna let him know if his flirting is too much for me (I let him flirt with other women many times while we we're out together but I was there and went home with him). He always defends that attraction to other people is natural, flirting is sometimes good for his business or getting deals etc. If this woman wasn't attractive, he wouldn't even have hung out with her and now be "friends". It's not like they're long time friends she's a random new woman from the bar from a month ago.
How do I bring it up, if at all, with his anger problems? Any advice is welcome. I'm anxious about dealing with this only now that I'm pregnant with him, so confused with my feelings and what to do. Would personal or couples therapy help us through this? I thought of saying, "I noticed her commenting. Did you end up meeting with her?" Or something along the lines to not push him into anger. Or should this be a conversation at all initiated by me?
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2023.03.21 21:57 unsurewhattodothrow My (26F) Fiance (27M) made friends with a random woman he used to have on social media on his business trip after running into her out partying, then went for food with her alone and hasn't told me yet. I'm 12 weeks pregnant and he did this a week after we found out we are before he left.

TLDR: fiance hungout with random women and partied on his work trip struggling with his mental and physical health for many months, never told me about one woman he's now connected to and inappropriately flirts with her through text and probably in person one on one. What do I do? I'm pregnant with our first and we're buying a house.
I'm (26F) 12 weeks pregnant, closing on buying a house with my (27M) fiance, started a new job for better pay for us 3 weeks ago, and my fiance went on a business trip but wasted most of his time going to casino and clubs partying, with a random woman we "knew of from Facebook and through mutuals, but never officially met (until he did while there).
This is our first baby to be together. After 4 and a half years together, we're finalizing home ownership at the end of the month. I felt this was all about us growing together now but the way hes acting lately it's like he wants a snippet of the single life with partying with random people, beautiful women, including one on one time with said other women for dinners and more casino time. His partying behavious has increased for the last several months. He owns his own business, and it's expanded so much while we've been together into making a few million a year, a bigger team, and expanding to another town whoch adds to his pressure and work stress. He has random people from our town and neighboring towns that we "know of" (small territory) on social media for advertising reach, but this one woman he ended up deleting since she annoyingly posted a lot, I'll call her Valene. He went to the city for 3 weeks to pick up products and get one of our dogs neutered, so because of the surgery, he stayed 5 days longer.
He went to the casino/clubs around 5-10 times at least, on weekends and week days, including when the trip was extended for our dog's neutering. During this he caught up with an old friend(23F) I'll call her Lisa that we both know from highschool also an ex of his, no feelings leftover, just platonic but very beautiful woman and into fitness. His time with her, he was letting me know ahead of time when they were going to hang out and got food, most times with another guy friend of his as well. Including over a weekend air bnb rental in the next city but she ended up going home when they got into a dumb drunken fight (from the sounds of it) while also all binge drinking and doing drugs together all night before that weekend.
He saw the younger woman Valene (23F) that he had on facebook but deleted because she posted so much, at a party casino his first night and they recognized eachother, he told me that she was looking and walking with a drink staring at him and accidentally walked into some other person. They didn't have eachother online for a month or 2, but then recently I saw her reacting and commenting on his posts like they know eachother, after he told me he already deleted her the first night he mentioned to me he saw her. Now they're connected online again a couple weeks after his trip. I found that odd, and he never mentioned anything to me about her. He told me he was struggling in pain physically and mentally more so during his trip which is why he was partying. His flight was delayed for 2 days since the airline didn't accept the original kennel our dog was shipped with (too small, they never said anything from here) so he had to buy a new one.
I know it isn't right to snoop in your partners phone, but I wanted to know why they were connected and he didn't mention anything to me, I figured that they ran into eachother one night out again and that was it but they did more like exchanging numbers, texted the next day, went for food and to the casino until 2am again, she texts him like they're long time friends but with some flirting, that I'll get into more detail about.
He told her his flight was moved for an extra couple days, said let's do something, that he'll take her out to eat and tried getting her when he was at a restaurant already, she said "atleast give me 4 hours i look like shit". She has an almost 1 year old from a cheating ex that she left last year so she needed to arrange a babysitter ahead of time as well, and asked if he could pay, he responded "never even fucked yet and I'm already paying your babysitter hahahaha. That was a joke though <3" which i feel has crossed a line. She said "your dime my time" "hahaha I can say the same thing" "Okay until midnight?" he said,"2am lets go casino again" "I got one for all night" "trying to sleepover? Hahaha. " "No, I don't want to wake my baby up in the middle of the night you wish." "hahaha actually, I dont, but it was a joke." Then they ended up hanging out, and he picked her up, and I can tell that he dropped her off around 2am by their following texts.
A couple weeks later she was messaging him every day to every few days until just over a week ago, she was saying things like "sup fuck" "hey how's it going you make it back up" "Good morning" "hey" "have you seen my dad up there? He doesn't talk to me anymore. Reinstated daddy issues lol" "What do you mean? " "nvm" she also asked if he has snap, he said he does, but he doesn't use it. She said "well?" "And I'm not going to use it."
She seems to initiate all their convos, they kinda catch up, but since they don't hang out now, it's minimal. But she also messaged. " I have a question for you. You told me you're allowed to have female friends, but you told me you didn't tell your wife about meeting me. Why?" He said "yea so, idk lol" "okay" "you can tell her idc" "that would be the dumbest thing as a woman" and he went off on his rant saying "I meet so many people everywhere I go I don't discuss everything, I hungout with a ton of people when I was there male female it's normal life. Plus, most times, we hung out to party or go eat idk it's no big deal. I did get confused having to pay for your babysitter, haha, but you're a student all good. How come u ask haha" she said "idk" then changed the topic.
There's been more frequency of him having no patience for me, and he gets very upset and angry when i try to talk and communicate my needs in our relationship, but I'm hurt that he can pretend to be all nice with these other random women,, pay for their babysitter, take them for food, party with them in a whole different city. I wanna let him know if his flirting is too much for me (I let him flirt with other women many times while we we're out together but I was there and went home with him). He always defends that attraction to other people is natural, flirting is sometimes good for his business or getting deals etc. If this woman wasn't attractive, he wouldn't even have hung out with her and now be "friends". It's not like they're long time friends she's a random new woman from the bar from a month ago.
How do I bring it up, if at all, with his anger problems? Any advice is welcome. I'm anxious about dealing with this only now that I'm pregnant with him, so confused with my feelings and what to do. Would personal or couples therapy help us through this? I thought of saying, "I noticed her commenting. Did you end up meeting with her?" Or something along the lines to not push him into anger. Or should this be a conversation at all initiated by me?
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2023.03.21 21:09 iSlaySoulz Travelling with two dogs to Parksville for 1 week

Hello we will be heading to Parksville in July for a week and I’m looking for recommendations on things to do with our dogs like dog friendly beaches and hikes etc within maybe 1-1.5 hours of there? We will be staying at the Tides inn and we are also wondering if there is a dog park near there that is fenced? Tia
Edit, add: we will have a car 😊
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2023.03.21 17:22 FDawgSoul Dog Friendly Activities

I just got a puppy and I’m wondering about things to do in Windsor this year that are dog friendly. So looking for recommendations on events, businesses, restaurants/bars/patios, or other pet friendly things to do to get her out and about.
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2023.03.21 17:07 oddly- 22F looking for pals to [chat] or [voice chat]

Sup guys, gals, and enby pals!
I am looking for friends, though I am not opposed to something more. I understand that sometimes people just don't vibe though, so honestly, take a chance on me and let's try chatting for a bit. If we don't vibe, no hard feelings from me!
I think im supposed to describe myself here, but imma try something different and just put some random facts about me in no particular order cause ngl, I don't really have any hobbies beyond reading and traveling (which is not something I can often do). So yeah, honestly, pretty boring stuff. But anyway, sorry for dragging, here goes:
• I love soup
• I have cats and dogs
• I prefer mountains and forest to beaches. Though I wouldn't refuse an invitation to go to the beach : )
• I love mangoes
• I would like to work in human service, something like a social worker or counsellor or working with the prison population, but that dream is on hold cause I have to drop out from university due to financial problems haha
• I fell from a window once
• I have read 8 books this year so far
• My now close friend first impression of me was "weird, but approachable weird"
Honestly, can't think of anything anymore at the moment, but if you have any questions, just ask!
Also, even though I am not in university anymore, I still would like to learn, so bonus point if we can share resources and motivate each other to learn (my interest lies in sociology, psychology, health behaviours and of course social work). This isn't mandatory though! I also love a fun lighthearted chat and just sending stupid memes.
Please mention "Pickles" when you message me so I know you read everything! This isn't a reference for anything I just had pickled lettuce today lmao
Cheers
PS: Im on mobile, hopefully my formatting is decent but my apologies if it isn't
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2023.03.21 15:54 CorbeanChandy What should I make with all of these items I’ve collected?

I live for up-cycling and diy projects. I prefer to make things that are useful in some way for a practical purpose. I do enjoy creating visually appealing pieces or odd conversation pieces on occasion, as well. I’ve been quite busy with other things this year and haven’t done much with the several collections in my crafty closet. Now that I have some time, I’d love some help with ideas, so please let me know what unique/creative projects I could start working on with these items! (Possible TW for animal bones..)
•Nicotine pouch cans:
I’ve collected around 500 cans, possibly more. I originally planned on making a table top with resin for a friends locally owned tobacco shop. The project would’ve taken far fewer cans than I have now. The shop has since changed a bit, and the friend has taken on new business ventures. Ultimately, I could still make the table top and still have enough cans to make an additional piece. I’ve considered making smaller end tables but can’t seem to come up with “better” ideas for them than tables at the moment.
•Grandma’s key collection:
My grandmother gifted me several (approx 45-55) old useless keys from previous houses, cars, locks, etc. She specifically gifted them so they could “be put to some sort of use” like crafting projects. I don’t exactly have endless resources to manipulate metal- BUT I do have common tools like pliers, sander, Dremel, and a heat gun. Ideas my friends and I have discussed include trinket wind chime, key jewelry(heat and bend to make rings potentially), key holder made of keys, random sculpture, and steam punk vibe or old country/rustic resin piece with other old metal items in resin for the family owned barestaurant.
•Bottle caps:
Pretty straight forward, beer and soda bottle caps. Maybe 100 but I can’t be sure, I keep finding more containers stashed in the closet. I’ve seen several ideas for these but still wonder if there’s something especially cool I could do with them. I don’t want to miss out on an opportunity to make a really awesome piece.
•Animal bones:
I know this one is a bit weird. There are hunters that live near by, and I’m close to a lot of farm land. Farmers and hunters in my area own the land where I take nature walks with my dogs and daughter. We don’t go out where there are any potential dangers but the fields and paths we usually walk through have a lot of local wildlife like deer, foxes, opossums, raccoons, birds, and so on. I’ve come across bones several times and started collecting them at some point. Unsure what started that, other than possibly making something especially interesting and using them at the time to teach kiddo about anatomy. I thought about carving pieces, painting a deer skull, and some Wiccan/fae, gothic or indigenous tribe inspired pieces. I don’t want to be disrespectful at all so if that’s something I should stray away from it is completely understandable.
Any ideas for any projects are greatly appreciated!!
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2023.03.21 15:32 lululuchia19 Friends, share your favorite restaurants that has a view of the beach?

I’m celebrating a birthday this weekend and would love to enjoy this upcoming sunny weather with family, good food and a nice view of the beach. Preferably lunch time and kid friendly. Nothing too crazy expensive and with easy parking. 😂 I hope that’s not too much to ask. Thanks!!
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2023.03.21 15:10 JaymieD22 Torn don’t know what to do

This is kind of long I’ll try and keep it short but desperate for help. I have been married 20 years. We have three kids together 24, 20 and 18. My husband is and always has been an amazing father there are no complaints there. He also is a wonderful provider. Anyways, my issue with him is I don’t trust him and I don’t know what to do I’m scared to throw it all away but my biggest thing in a marriage is trust and if it’s not there I don’t know what more to do. So now that are kids are older he goes out more with his guy friends. I absolutely can’t stand these guys they are all married as well accept for one whose divorced. I’m more I’d prefer to hang home I work all day with kids so usually I’m fine with him going out with the guys as there huge sports fans. But he goes away frequently with them to Myrtle Beach as one of the guys whose divorced owns a place there. I happened to have found a bar they went to there one night as we have the life 360 app and that bar had live cams I didn’t see my husband do anything but I saw to guys he was with who are both married as well all over these other woman it was disgusting and tells you what kind of men my husband hangs out with. Here in our town they all go to this one particular bar it’s a sports bar I caught my husband one time when I was with him having dinner there snapping a photo of the waitresses boobs ( she was showing a lot of cleavage) and send it to his friends and I called him out for it I was pissed. Don’t get me wrong i get it guys look but when your with your wife at dinner have some respect for me. So a year ago this month he went away on a work conference he went with his whole team. He went for a week. It was weird cause he always would text/call when away but I did not here from him the whole time but it was whatever didn’t think much. When he got home he fell asleep I went through his phone and I saw a bunch of texts from the guys he was with saying just how they were the life of the party and this girl and that girl was hot and then I found a text to a girl that invited her back to his room. She declined. I lost my cool and I left for a few days. I basically after that lost all my trust. He was crying saying sorry when he drinks he makes “poor choices” well that doesn’t make me feel good. But nothing has changed he still goes out he drinks now I noticed if I check his phone he deletes some texts he has with the other guys in friend group and he even told his friend group I check his phone so now they make fun of me and it’s not funny. So here we are now and it’s March and he leaves again for another conference I’m freaking out and don’t trust him. I definitely need therapy as I’m very insecure with myself. Our sex life is horrible he is over the top wanting sex all the time begs me to have a three some wants to watch me with other guys is his fantasy and I’m def not comfortable with that. He always says he needs crazy in his life and I’m total opposite I love sex obviously don’t have it much we work fulltime when we do it’s mostly weekends and it’s great. Anyways, I think we both need therapy I’m ready to run away I know he knows but he doesn’t ever make me secure and feel better I want him to put his arms around me and tell me he loves me and he would never cheat. I just feel he’s acting too much like a teenager. Anyways sorry it’s so long I just needed to get it off my chest.
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2023.03.21 15:02 VividJester Dog friendly restaurants/breweries recommendations

Hi all! My fiancé and I will be staying around the Harrisonburg area in mid April and we are from out of state. What are some good places to grab good food and drinks? We will also have our two dogs with us as well!
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2023.03.21 14:26 Stardust310 Back from cashun!

Hi Apollo and Athena here. We went to da beach!!!!!! Athena walked in da waters I chased the waves. Water was friendly kept waving at me!
Den we did a dog park every morning because Athena won’t go potty on a leash.
We went into hooman restaurants and once I had to go to da car cause a pesky German Shepard started poop with me. Many good smells and tastes though.
We stayed in a room with other dogs looking at me. I boofed and they boofed. (Mirrors) I’m scared of them windows to other dimenshuns!
Den we came home. Mommy hooman broke her foot. I finally started bringing the ball back to her bc she can’t run around with me.
Good times great sniffs!
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2023.03.21 14:00 Pianist-Vegetable Off leash dogs in the UK

So I'll start by saying I live in a small town in the UK, It is very dog friendly, you can take your dog into about 85% of the shops and restaurants here and dogs are off leash a lot even through the town. So no this is not americ where is it only acceptable to have them off leash in a designated space. There is only one outdoor place they ask you to have your dog on a leash which I would always abide by.
Now I have lived here for four years and my routines have not changed but I was walking along my regular route, my dog is off leash and just nosing about this path, and another guy comes down the path with his dog, quite far away so I could not see he had a nervous jacket on. Fair enough. But then the guy started screaming at me to get my dog, so I called him back and he came back as he is well trained. The guy started having a go at me, because apparently my dog could have been attacked. My response was well maybe you shouldn't walk him on an enclosed path if he's like that? There was a road that runs parallel to this path, with the same end destination.
Surely if your dog is that reactive anyway you shouldn't walk them where they will be in close quarters, it clearly stressed the dog out which I get isn't nice but why put him in that situation in the first place when there's another option, I seen 4/5 other dogs on the same path that day so this dog is just gonna be freaking about the entirety of its walk.
Wasn't entirely sure which sub to put this is so call me an asshole if you like or just know i needed to vent cause that's frustrating as hell.
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